“Say your husband is a slob without saying your husband is a slob.” —Kai “Yeah, he was a slob. I had to spend a lot of time training him out of this. It was not fun at all. I should not have had to do that. He was 47 when I met him, but our culture persists in telling men they don’t need to learn domestic tasks. Luckily my guy is awesome in other ways and takes good care of me.” —lightnlife “Plus being nice is basic decent behavior. Everyone should be nice. Stop acting like you deserve special treatment for being nice.” —lightnlife —akira25ppc —Jessica Griffin “That’s a big one. A LOT of guys think their experiences are the only valid ones and that they know more about what women experience than actual women.” —lightnlife —hiitsnicetomeetyou —Gina —Anonymous —Anonymous — Wanting to make the relationship super serious, super fast. Clingy a week in = manipulative. — Expressing any Very Strong Opinion on how women ‘should’ wear their hair/makeup. — Accusations of cheating based on nothing, or otherwise jealous behavior. — Seeming confused by/unhappy about basic safety precautions. To be clear, all of these have happened to me, and it’s always been a sign of things to come." —violettelafleur —Retrocrebbon
